Determine which actions during the day, are your “heroic moments“.
Heroic moments might be viewed as simple required actions, obligations by others, but deep inside us, we understand that these actions require us to make a yes or no decision. We have to commit ourselves.
Heroic moments consist of an internal decision to do something for the greater good, to contribute to an idea or organization, to participate in a selfless act. The decision to start, follow-through and finish a project or activity that will benefit others.
It’s a moment when we say to ourselves “I will do this, no matter what”.
Heroic moments occur when we decide and commit to actions that that we know are required, expected or desired by others.
The most important heroic moments happens daily, when we make the decision to leave the comfort of our warm bed, wake our sleeping body and mind, and start the day.
A heroic moment occurs when you make the decision to face the angry customer, and resolve the problem.
A heroic moment occurs when you dig into the pile of paperwork on your desk.
A heroic moment occurs when we pick up the phone and start “cold- calling”.
A heroic moment occurs when we’re having a miserable day and keep smiling and don’t take it out on others.
A heroic moment occurs when we decide to motivate or lead others through inspiration and not fear.
A heroic moment occurs when we start an exercise program.
A heroic moment occurs when we decide not to involve ourselves in an personal argument or conflict.
A heroic moment occurs when we DO involve ourselves in an argument or conflict in order to solve a organization or family problem.
As employees, leaders, managers, parents, children, siblings, co-workers, or even as strangers, we are confronted with many opportunities to make “heroic” decisions.
We don’t do these things because we’ll be recognized. We don’t do them because someone will build a statue. They may not be monumental actions. It’s not the type of heroism that makes it on to the front page of the newspaper.
The only person who might know about it is you.
Finding and identifying the heroic moments in our lives is a simple way to motivate ourselves and feel good about our decisions and how we are interacting with the world around us.
(Thanks to Jesus Sotomayor for the phrase and idea)